Prior to Death

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If you have been asked to serve as a future executor for someone still living, or you are an estate owner trying to optimize your own eventual estate, there are some simple things you can do in advance to make the entire process much easier.

Gather Important Information

After a death, it can be surprisingly difficult to find important information which the estate owner could have provided without a moment's thought. Gathering this information in advance can save the executor considerable effort, avoid unnecessary family drama, and reduce the chance for legal or financial mistakes.

Determine Location of Items Needed Upon Death

Quick access to the following information can be extremely helpful in the days immediately following a death: (you don't need to discuss the details of these items if one or both of you don't want to; the main thing is for the executor to be able to find the relevant information when the time comes):

  • Any advance health care directives
  • Contact information for family, friends, and close acquaintances
  • Contact information for any employer and in-home caregivers
  • Copy or location of any will
  • Cemetery plots or funeral arrangements that may have been prepaid
  • Military service records (for veteran's benefits)
  • Safe deposit box locations and keys
  • Social insurance number
  • Location of keys and combinations

EstateExec is designed to help you organize and record all this information in centralized location, helping to ensure that things go smoothly when the estate must eventually be settled (see Using EstateExec for Someone Still Living).

Inventory Key Assets and Debts

Relatively early in the estate settlement process, an executor will need to inventory all the estate owner's assets and debts. Since most people die without even a will, expecting a loved one to nicely maintain a detailed list of all current assets and debts is probably unrealistic, but it can be challenging for an executor to try to piece together a complete picture starting from scratch (and with the ongoing migration to digital statements, it's getting even harder for an executor to try to collect this information by reviewing physical mail received after death).

Consequently, it can be vital for an executor to have access to at least a high-level list of key assets and debts, along with the following associated information (or at least the location or relevant summary of such information) as applicable:

  • Location and/or contact information
  • Rough value (the exact value as of the date of death will need to be determined by the executor)
  • Ownership certificate or title
  • Registration or deed
  • Lease and other contracts
  • Insurance policy

An estate owner or a future executor can enter this information into an EstateExec estate in advance (often years in advance): see Taking Inventory for some simple advice on what to list, and note that EstateExec allows you to associate uploaded files with each item.

Record Adjusted Cost Base (ACB)

It can be very helpful to know the adjusted cost base of most assets (e.g., the original purchase price of a home, the original purchase price of stock shares, etc.), since the CRA requires that the decedent's final T1 pay taxes on the deemed disposition of many types of assets (i.e., the CRA collects taxes on any gains generated by the assumed sale of those assets upon death, even though the assets aren't actually sold). Don't worry... EstateExec can automatically calculate deemed disposition, respecting asset class and any spousal deferments. However, you will need to know the original adjusted cost base of most assets, and this can be challenging to determine after your loved one is gone.

List Other Items

Some things aren't critical, but can help a detail-oriented executor perform efficiently:

  • Credit card account information
  • Marriage and divorce certificates
  • Drivers license number
  • Memberships (unions, clubs, etc.)
  • List of any enrolled assistance programs
  • Contact information for service providers (e.g., Internet, gardeners, etc.)
  • Tax submission situation (has the estate owner submitted income tax forms for this year?)

Additional Considerations

In addition to gathering lists of important details and documents, there are some estate-related topics you may wish to address:

Consider Access to Safe Deposit Boxes

Many people store important information (and sometimes valuables) in safe deposit boxes. You can ask the bank to search a safe deposit box for a will, but it's easier if you simply have access to it yourself. Consider asking your loved one to add you to the bank's list of people who are allowed to access any such boxes. See also Safe Deposit Boxes.

Establish a Separate Email Account for Financial Correspondence

We recommend that estate owners establish an email account used purely for financial interactions. This email account should be used to receive all digital statements and bills, and the access information for the email account can be given to the executor in the advance, or stored somewhere safe that the executor will know to look once the death has occurred.

Access to such an account will allow the executor, when the time comes, to more easily piece together a comprehensive picture of the estate owner's current assets and debts. It will also enable the executor to better understand ongoing financial relationships (such as cell phone plans, insurance coverage, utilities, and more), many of which will be important to deal with quickly. There may be some bills you want to pay immediately, for example to keep an important insurance policy in force, or to keep the heat on so the pipes don't freeze, and conversely, there may be some things you want to cancel before the costs pile up unnecessarily (such as a cell phone plan, or an Amazon membership).

Setting up a separate email account that contains just financial correspondence will overcome the reluctance that many people have to sharing access to their personal email accounts, even posthumously, since there's private correspondence in there that no one else needs to know about. And a separate email account will also make things easier on the executor, since there won't be so many other things to wade through.

Be Careful of POD Accounts

In an attempt to simplify the estate settlement process, some people try to put all their assets into Payable on Death (POD) accounts, which are not subject to probate. While PODs can be beneficial, if all estate assets are POD, there will be nothing left to pay debts (such as taxes or credit card bills), cover funeral expenses, compensate the executor, etc. Such estates will be insolvent, administration will be complex, and creditors will have the ability to recover funds from the POD beneficiaries. Consequently, if your loved one is considering such an approach, you may want to suggest they leave at least some assets in the estate itself, or provide some other mechanism to handle estate expenses.

Review Digital Assets

Digital assets such as cryptocurrency and NFTs deserve special attention, since it can be difficult to impossible to claim for the estate without exact knowledge of location and password. However, since theft and fraud is rampant with these types of assets, estate owners can be understandably reluctant to share this information in a way that might be compromised. Perhaps your best approach is to agree on a location where this information can be found in the event of the estate owner's death. While you might use an online service for this, it might be safest if the estate owner did this the old-fashioned way, with paper, and perhaps in a couple of locations (just in case something happens to one of the locations, such as a fire).

In addition, some people have significant amounts of airline miles and other loyalty reward program points. It might be worthwhile to ask your loved one if they have any unusually large reward accounts, although note that any such inheritance transfers are usually at the discretion of the program administrator (e.g., United Airlines).

See Managing Digital Assets for more information.

Discuss Online Media Accounts

Online media accounts such as Facebook, YouTube, eHarmony, and LinkedIn don't necessarily have any intrinsic value, and are thus not normally handled by traditional estate settlement processes, but many people would indeed like these to be memorialized, shut down, or transferred. You can ask your loved one their preferences, and he or she can establish a "legacy contact" at many of these services, who will have the ability to take certain actions upon the death of the account holder. Be forewarned that this can be a lot of work that's not normally required of an executor, so you may want to consider whether you want to get into this at all (see Estate Administration of Online Media Accounts for links to the relevant pages for a few of the more popular services).

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Beyond the Estate

While an executor's official task is to settle the estate after the estate owner passes away, in real life it's not uncommon for the same person to end up helping in other ways long before the death.

Transition Living Arrangements

If the person who will serve as executor (someday) is involved in the estate owner's living arrangements (from assisted living to hospice care), you both may want to check out My Caring Plan, which offers a variety of resources in this regard.

Explore Funeral Options

You may find it easier to compare funeral options and expenses in advance, so that when the time comes you've done your research and have one less thing to think about. Obviously, this is not something you need to discuss with your loved one unless you both feel comfortable doing so (see Funerals).

Consider Power of Attorney

Having power of attorney gives a person the legal authority to act for the estate owner. While any power of attorney will become void once the estate owner dies, it may be helpful to have a trusted peron have this authority in the final stages, when the executor's official powers have not yet kicked in, but decisions need to be made and actions taken.

Say Your Goodbyes

Don't wait for the last minute to say your heartfelt goodbyes. There are many things that people realize they wish they had said when someone passes away, and if you have the chance, take it. People sometimes shy away from doing this, because they worry that it reminds the other person of the approaching death, but believe us, they already know. The dying person often greatly values hearing your appreciation of the role that he or she has played in your life, and may have a few words he or she would like to share with you as well.

See also Choosing an Executor and Timeline.

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